Actor Shehnaaz Gill, who was deeply affected after late actor Sidharth Shukla’s death, shared a video chat with his Guru, Brahma Kumari Shivani on Tuesday. Shehnaaz shared the almost hour-long conversation on her YouTube channel where she opened up about her spiritual journey where she revealed how she has restarted her life after her boyfriend Sidharth’s death. She titled the video ‘Reset and Restart’ and discussed how to deal with the negativity, pain and loss. In the video, while mentioning Sidharth Shukla, Gill said, “I always used to tell Siddharth that I have to talk to sister Shivani. I like her very much, but Siddharth always used to tell me ‘Yes, definitely. You chill’ and then, it eventually happened.”
Shehnaaz shared that in the past two years she learnt how to be more patient and positive. She spoke about those whose souls have departed and said, “People lose dear ones. From what I have experienced, I feel we should not think that we should have stayed together for more time. Rather, we should think that we have such good memories together.”
Furthermore, she said that when someone loses a loved one, often people wonder what would they do hereafter. She admitted having similar thoughts too and losing the desire to live. “Kayi log sochte hain, nahi ab nahi mujhe rehna. Ab to main marr hi jau to accha hai, logon ki wording hai ye. Matlab meri bhi thi ki humein to ab nahi rehna chahiye, humein to aisa karna chahiye. Ab main kya karungi,” she said.
Shehnaaz also alluded that crying at someone’s death will only cause more hurt and won’t help. To this Shivani responded by saying, “If we remain in pain, then even those who surround us will be unhappy. Not just that, even the soul who has gone will be troubled and feel the discomfort.” Sister Shivani shared with examples how keeping negativity at bay is helpful and what one should do to keep themselves spirited.
